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“What if the very conversations you’ve been avoiding are the key to deeper, stronger relationships? In The Cost of Quiet, Colette Jane Fehr reveals why conflict, when faced with courage, can be the greatest act of love. This book will change how you connect forever.”

“This book is a must-read for anyone who has ever silenced themselves to keep the peace. Colette Fehr offers a liberating path forward—one rooted in honesty, connection, and the courage to speak up.”

"In The Cost of Quiet, Colette Jane Fehr shines a compassionate light on the hidden toll of avoiding tough conversations. With clarity and heart, she shows that ‘conflict’ isn’t a dirty word and that speaking up with love can deepen connection, foster understanding and even save a marriage. If you want more harmony and happiness in your relationships, this book is a must-read."

“It’s normal to fear conflict and want to avoid it at all costs. But staying silent when things get tough destroys relationships. Here’s the good news: you can learn to have the hard conversations with your partner that will actually save your marriage. The Cost of Quiet shows you how to speak up in your relationship—and why you must.”

“The Cost of Quiet will give you the courage and clarity you need to finally start speaking up and showing up as your most authentic self. Fehr’s brilliant work is the medicine our world has been waiting for, helping countless people discover their power to keep it real and true. In doing so, she reveals the highest and best that love has to offer.” 

"The Cost of Quiet makes a persuasive case for sharing our deepest vulnerabilities in our relationships—rather than reflexively shutting down or lashing out. Fehr leads the reader through the steps of identifying their own triggers, making sense of and taking responsibility for them, and communicating them in ways that can reach and move their partner.”

“Once in a while a book comes along that is so useful and to-the-point that one can only say: Get it now and put it to work for you. In The Cost of Quiet, Fehr correctly identifies a fundamental relationship problem: silence in the name of peace is the slayer of intimacy.” 

“A courageous and soul-stirring guide for anyone who longs to be heard. With bold compassion and practical brilliance, Colette Jane Fehr reveals how speaking with fierce honesty doesn’t create conflict, but instead sparks deeper connection and enduring intimacy.”

“This book is a compassionate, practical guide to having the hard conversations that truly deepen connection. It’s a must-read for anyone who wants to build secure, lasting love.” 

“The book's central insight is revolutionary yet simple: staying quiet to ‘keep the peace’ actually creates the very disconnection we're trying to prevent. The Cost of Quiet offers hope that it's never too late to transform both your relationship with yourself and others through the power of truthful, loving communication. This is not just a book; it’s a transformative journey toward personal liberation.” 

“When we avoid hard conversations, it doesn’t just cost us emotionally; we see the fall out in our sexual lives. Fehr gives couples the language and courage to have conversations that deepen intimacy, spark desire, and create lasting sexual connections ... a brilliant, compassionate guide.”

I wrote The Cost of Quiet to help people learn how to communicate, speak up, and build healthier relationships before it’s too late.

This book is about healing, self-love, empowerment, emotional health, and learning to use your voice. Because silence has a cost and speaking up changes everything.